I'm going through countless amounts of court proceedings with my ex, can someone please help me?

Sorry to say the longer you drag out the little things that don't really amount to anything the longer this will take and more stressful it will be.........is it REALLY worth it? And gym payment restitution....really? Who signed what? Get supervised contacts so a independent part can witness any misbehaving between you two. You will spend thousands in attorney fees to get back a few hundred. Do whats best for you and your child, move on.